
I can never really understand how a person can get so pissed/frustrated/irritated/unhappy/upset in maybe let's say.... a club?
We're there to party, to have a great time with friends... to let loose ...no?
I just don't quite understand how one can get to the extend of being SO FRIGGIN MAD PISSED , followed by sweeping everything off the table...
ALL the bottles... the glasses....
and continue throwing punches at the other party for whatever mistake he or she did that displeases you in any way? (most of the time a would be a "he" ) Is it worth the fight? really? Why do you fight like it's the end of the world?
Under the influence of alcohol maybe.
I mean.... most of the time it started off with what I would still deem as "PUNY"
like accidentally pushing someone for example ?
The one being pushed would stare back hard and give a face which totally screams" I DON'T CARE I DEMAND AN APOLOGY NOW !!!!!!!!!"
If an apology isn't received....
and in WORSE SCENARIOS, some would act all blur about the blatant sorry and stare back just as hard and a fight would start. Almost instantly.
Sometimes, leading to a group fight... in unfair situations like maybe.. 3 is to 1?
Not funny.
But hey.. the one being pushed....you didn't fall that hard to the ground, did you? Your teeth are still intact sitting in your mouth aye?
Let go... don't go after the "sorry" ... Be the bigger wiser man.
Just recently, one happened. Didn't witness the entire situation but it happened to a Butch, who we thought was a guy at first by her dressing . I had zero clue on what triggered this fight to start.
All I heard from my friend was that...
She was on the ground trying to defend herself from the unremitting kicks and punches that was thrown to her by 3 men where she laid on the broken glass . Her face wasn't spared.
By the time it came to the attention of the bouncer , it was too late. The fight ceased.
Leaving the battered poor girl with blood oozing out and rolling down from the wounds/cuts on her face (and I don't know where else) dripping onto the carpet as she is being carried out of the site immediately..
Being attended to with the help of the first aid box to disinfect her wounds while waiting for the ambulance to arrive . All I could do was feel sorry.
The last I saw was on my way out to get a cab....
The injured was rooted onto the gurney which was somehow a chair.
Omg dudes... chill please? Who knows?All that just to hear a "sorry" maybe?
Not forgetting the price you'll have to pay for, when you let your anger get the best of you ...
In more exaggerated but possible scenarios, what if you accidentally kill someone in the process of venting out your anger , in a moment of folly , even if you have no intentions of doing so?
Are you ready to face the music?
And, what about your family? Your own actions doesn't solely affect you.
It affects everyone around you, Your family, friends and all those whom you played a role in their life and vice versa. Why are they being "punished" along with you for your rashness and misdeed acts?
Working at clubs... I have never gotten into a fight with anyone ...not even minor ones. And , I hope it stays that way.
However, it doesn't mean I haven been pushed, scratched, punched in the arm by female strangers ... =x
Small "accidents" are very prone in clubs especially when almost everyone drinks? And, when it's soooooo crowded. Spare the person and spare yourself and just let it pass , alright? :)
This isn't a rant... Neither do I find it meaningless to post. Just my two cents.
I'm always asking you people to come party! Lol!
I feel partially obligated to remind you guys, party animals in particular... of what you all should already know in a sober state of mind.
It breaks my heart to see the aftermath of fights like this.
Goodbye. Please be alright. X



